This past weekend was an exciting weekend for our family. Our eight-year-old daughter choose to be baptized into our church. Both sets of grandparents came into town to support her as well as many others. It was an amazing weekend with answered prayers and spending time with people whom I love and I am grateful for. My in-laws stayed at our home for a few days and our children LOVED it. Then on Monday, Grandma and Grandpa had to leave and my husband left on a business trip. Our home went from a full home, to a home where it seemed too quiet.
One night I stayed up too late watching a re-run of Criminal Minds. Back in the day, I loved crime shows but I get too emotional about them now. Anyway, sometimes those crime shows suck me in and it did that night. I have no idea what the episode was called but at one point Penelope is going to visit a guy that is on death row and only has 24 hours left until he is executed. She goes because she wants to “clear the air” and understand why he did what he did. At first the guy doesn’t want to meet with her and then a little later in the date he abruptly changes his mind and they are able to talk. Penelope asked why the change of heart but the guy is testing the waters and as she continues to talk he says something to the effect that she only came for herself. In the short scene it becomes apparent that he is looking for someone to care about him and how scared he is and that he doesn’t want to die alone. He never has visitors, no human connection and he doesn’t want to go out of the world alone. He asks Penelope to come and witness the execution but she says she doesn’t think that she can. Anyway, as the show goes on she realizes that just as she needs someone to talk to and listen to her and be there for her, she needs to be there for the death row guy. So she goes to the execution for the death row guy.
I thought about how we are all hard wired for connection. Many people give into “internet”connections and that is why they are so powerful because it fulfills a huge need. With my husband gone I felt like half of me was missing, our connection felt far away and quiet. I am not saying that I need my husband attached to my hip, but I missed him. He means more to me than I could even express.
Anyway, with these two colliding thoughts in my head I just thought about how well am I nurturing my connections? Do the people I love know how much I love them, why I love them, and what makes them special to me? Now, get off your technology and go connect, really connect.